Is this worth saving, or am I only fooling myself?

[kat727]

E-mailing him might mess with his mind but I would think what your ultimate goal would be. These OM/OW don't really seem to care that they are messing with other people and their lives, they are usually just as selfish as the WAS is.

I did contact the OW aka skank via myspace. I did ask her to stay out of our lives and that I didn't believe we could work on our marriage while she was in the picture. She sent it right away to my then H. I got some anger out but in the long run, it didn't make a difference.

Again, just look at your goal.

kat