You once told me that your H had to reassure you a lot regarding OW. So, this seems to indicate that you eventually got to R talk (of course you did), but when in the process did that happen?
I do find myself having some "R" talk with my H, even though I try not to. It seems to go OK, and my H even seems to try to be understanding and supportive, although it is obviously hard for him. But, I second guess myself ALL the time. I worry that I am pushing him away, but he is not saying so because he feels guilty (since the infidelity came out). In MC, I often end up looking like the emotion wreck, not H!
I am all over the place really.
TJ
Me45,H49 D24,S18 M26,T28 Bomb 3/19/08 Sep 6/23/08 EA/PA with Secretary 2007-8 3/2009 H moved in w/OW2 7/2009 Let him go w/Love. 8/2009 Legally Sep'd
