Mulesqb - I found strength when I least expected

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That's what I believe will have to wake up my W as well. Her drive to be single coincides with all the talk about how much financial aid she can get for school as a "single mom."

Mules.. Way to stand strong.

Thanks MC - it's so obvious - it's insulting. She has told me how her IC told her she won't be happy until she fends for herself. I think it's time she started. Fending for yourself is not going out by yourself -it's earning a living and not relying on others for you to live.

For me - it's been about setting an example for my boys and being able to look in the mirror. I'm ok on both of those now.