I guess you're right H4H. I just talked to my L finally and she said I need to agree to having H have the kids all that time!!! B/c they look at if you limit access or not to the kids so it could be seen as negative if I didn't let him have them.
The weird thing is luckily OW is usually there most of the time so I think that will probably keep him from going crazy with the kids. I can't imagine he would want her to see him lose control like he has in front of me and the kids. If I hadn't been depressed, I should have put my foot down about that way before this, and I regret that I didn't. I hope they will be ok, and I'm going to miss them so much. But yeah, maybe it will be good for him to get a bit of reality rather than the fantasy place I think he lives in most of the time.... Karen
