Yes, you are right...she did not want anyone to know that she has a OM. She can't even admit it now to me when I confront her. She says it is just conversation.
When I ask about the problem with our marriage she said two things: 1. that I was "moody" and 2. she does not like me to defend myself.
I agree about not her not stopping contact. Nothing else explains what is going on. The issue on Saturday was not all about me.
