ROFR = Right of First Refusal - Basically, if Kim is going to be gone from Caleigh for more than 48 hours then Mike has the right to demand that Caleigh is with him instead. In my papers I had it written for 4 hours!
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!
I see why you are pi$$ed, Mike. That sucks. H and I just talked over the weekend and he said even if there is an evening I have class or he needs to meet with a client, we would each give each other ROFR. Of course, that was not 'official' for us....things change when lawyers get involved, huh.
Chin up, thinking of you. Maybe it is good that you have a heavy workload tomorrow....
I verbally asked for an overnight absence regarding the ROFR. Of course this is just verbal right now but I intend to put that on paper.....don't know if it will fly.
You and Kerry will be divorced by the end of the week....I don't know how I will feel when that happens to me but I am happy for you guys.
The ROFR for 48 hours gone is CRAP and I cannot believe your L is not backing you up on it. I am telling you, the whole drop off notice thing could be alleviated with my suggestion.
it's clear that she is not interested in me having any more time than what has been negotiated. My L really has no idea how that would come out if it went before a judge..
she will not go for the drop off thing Laura..why would you think she would accept me having Caleigh an extra night when she won't give on 48 hrs. notice for the ROFR??
Just kinda shocked me reading it. I was WAAAYYYY paranoid for a little myself as my W is soooooo into money. Before the bomb, I had changed the beneficiary of my life insurance to the kids to be doled out by a trustee as needed for their livelihood in the event of my untimely demise. I made sure that she was aware; because I knew something wasn't right about a month before the bomb.
Even then, I took my 9mm and the ammo and kept it in my "man purse." It goes with me everywhere. Not that I'm scared of her; but maybe I watched too many Lifetime movies and too many of those "Snapped" documentaries.
They don't call me marriedCrazy for nothing!!!
BTW, sorry you couldn't get what you wanted in drop offs and that ROFR blows; but you're doing what you need to do. I wish you well my friend.
(((Mike))) sorry about the notice thing the FROR is standard. You should have that if she has to get her nails done...its your right as her FATHER.
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
