Puppy I am going to go to Vegas and have the best time possible. I am going to live my life. Thats what I'm going to do. H has a IC, so that guy is going to start earning his money. Its his job to help H figure this out. Not mine.
This is not my mess, my deal, my thing, my life.
I read your post to H4H and I'm SO guilty of the same sort of behavior. I'm a rescuer to the end, but I'm not doing H any favors by continuing it. I have finally gotten all of my stuff done that I wanted to. The LS is done. We did the interspousal transfer so the house is "mine" and now the agreement has been signed, notarized and filed with the court. The only other thing left for me to do is to change the LS to a D. That is a decision that will come sometime around the first of the year.
For right now my focus is the holidays and making it a good and happy time for the kids. With the time-line being what it is, if it turns out that this is in fact his baby, he can wait until after the holidays to break it to DD.
Other than that Pup, I need to continue GAL and focusing on me and my kids and deciding how I want my life to be and work at making it that way. Any suggestions?
Yep, one: Keep doing what you're now finally doing. It sounds wise to me, and you sound at peace with it. Maybe he will come around in time, or maybe he won't, but I think you've done everything you can do.
