But Kat, Did you ever have someone in your life that did things differently and you accepted it because that's the way they are?
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And one other thing I've been thinking.
Is not true love, accepting someone for their faults, accepting them for who they are and loving them anyway?
My answers to both of your questions would be "Yes . . . IF you are okay with it, and can maintain a loving attitude about it." I often don't hear/feel that from you, and -- I would add -- rightfully so.
Put differently, I think it's OK if YOU are okay with it -- REALLY okay, and not just "I'm OK with this because, I dunno, SHOULDN'T I BE?????"
Does that make ANY sense???
Put a 3rd way: I don't think there's anything wrong with being authentic, and saying this bothers you, in one of the ways that BA suggested. But don't NOT say it, simply because you're thinking "Oh, I shouldn't feel this way!" . . . and then build up a bunch of resentment about it towards her.
