Ok, we don't want to shut her down. My guess is she has not stopped contact otherwise it would be odd for her to not let you show her love in those very small ways.
So what is her reason for not wanting to stay married? What does she say? And what have your responses to that been?
And, like Puppy asked, why would she go no contact if she was leaving you anyway? I'm going to answer my own question and you can tell me if I am right: Because she is afraid you will expose her.?????
