And one other thing I've been thinking.

Is not true love, accepting someone for their faults, accepting them for who they are and loving them anyway?

It's like the problem my W has with saying "I'm sorry". I could count on one hand the number of times she's said 'I'm sorry' to me in our marriage. But she says it in different ways.

Would I like to get an I'm sorry? H3ll yes. Am I ok with her apologizing in different ways, even if it's not the way I would like her to apologize? Yes. To me, it's loving and accepting someone for who they are, faults and all.

And maybe that's why I've been able to stay at this for as long as I have.


Hope4us

Me - 49, W 49
S22 & S18
Dday 9/4/07
W claims NC 4/7/08
8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.