Maybe I should be in piecing part 4?

[Hope4us]

But Kat, Did you ever have someone in your life that did things differently and you accepted it because that's the way they are?

Like the flowers thing. I can see that they probably made her feel guilty. Maybe I shouldn't have done it. But I got them because I KNEW she'd like them. Not for the thank you.

But later that night, she showed me she'd taken pictures of them. That was her way of saying she liked them and thanking me for them. And if someone says thanks in their own way, even if it's not the way I'd like to receive it, is that still not OK?