After calming down, and reading between the letters, I realize the ball that I intended to place in his court hit the net, so to speak....I really didn't say anything giving him a choice to show up or not. I just stated what the kids and I were doing. I was vague and avoided inviting him...I wanted him to just ask 'what can I bring'...oops...that's ME trying to control him!! SMACK 2x4!!
So...I ignored his query to 'dicuss' anything. I don't want to dicuss anything with him...that could lead to bad words.
So...I simply replied: I was just letting you know we would be home, by ourselves for Thanksgiving...didn't know if you were interested...that's all...k.
Right away H replied: k
NOW...the ball is in his court.
Sophie
~~ Me-50 H-38 Married 15 years 8/7/08 D8 S10 S13 H affair 11/04-7/04 maybe longer H moved out 4/06
7/30/08- present: Reconnecting w/kids,friendly 10/30/08 H signed D papers 11/10/08 D papers filed 11/13/08 D papers served at home
