Yes I am in the service!! I did tell her that before I think she doesnt want to come back now till the pain is gone she does not ant to deal with it. She tells me she does nothing but work and come home and can I please stop talking about what happened with other women it is over(So I did that).She tels me she cant come home when I want her to but when she is ready she feels that right now we are not ready. I guess I am afraid that she doesnt mean it but I can tell by her eyes that she is in pain and seems that she realizes what she has done
