Our interactions are now much much better, more like real friends. I enjoy her company and I think maybe she enjoys mine too. Our visit lasted about an hour and a half this AM. I flirted a little telling her I always thought she was gorgeous and she gets more georgous as the years have gone by. I tempered it by adding I didn't care for her new (mlc) hairstyle.
I did mention i might buy a house in the next town. Her only reaction was immediate concern that that was where the kids would go to school (nothing about me moving further away). She mentioned there is a house a block from hers (about the eigth time she has brought up something like that since we separated). I think the reason is that she doesn't want the kids far from her.
One difference was that she came to the door as we were leaving even after the kids had gone to her room to tell her goodbye (I didn't). The door was already closed and locked so she stood there waving and saying goodbye.
"Fear is the mind-killer" Muad'Dib Me 53, XW 44, DD 14, DS 12 Bomb and OM 12/15/06 Separated 01/02/07 Divorced 05/13/08 X married OM(OMH) 08/2009 Married 06/09/13