sigh......i swore i would stay away from this place, but.....
hi bobbiejo! i just want to give you a big hug. i admire your strength so much, and i can also relate to the broken, crazy state of your h. it's like you try to dance to their crazy tune and you feel like an idiot. nothing you do will please them as there will always be something "wrong". i'm not even sure that it's possible to db when your h is nuts.
as far as it being "easier" for those of us with a was who never looked back.....i would say no. it's very hurtful for someone to leave without any real, or a very lame, explanation. it's just awful to know that they are capable of doing something like that.
and in my case, which is just about over with, he went on to do things that he used to make fun of. he hooked up with(rescued)a single soccer mom, moved in with her and her two kids, and bought two big, obnoxious vehicles.
we just had our property settlement conference, and when i walked into the offices, he wouldn't even look at me. no eye contact, nothing. how can they do that? it's just so hateful.
