I think you will be better without the stress always around you. If that means H well then, that means H. He is fooling himself and I think this "great idea" of his is a last ditch effort to show how great he is. He is delusional(aren't they all). I doubt that he could handle them for that whole time. Maybe you could say, sure you can have them, why don't we put that in the decree that you will have them for 4 nights in a row every month! Then I bet he would start backing off really quick!
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Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory