I hear what you guys are all saying, but with W seeming like she's right there, I thought a little push would help. Need to think on it some more.
I just thought of an interesting exchange we had Saturday evening. It just shows the kind of restraint us LBS's can have.
W and I were discussing one of the shops in Gatlinburg. It's pretty much a junk store, but they had one thing in the window that I thought would be neat to get. So I asked W if she wanted to run down there and pick it up. here's the convo.
W: No, I'd rather not. Me: Ok, but I really think it would be neat. W: I don't do white trash (her description of the store) Me: (hesitating)..uh... W: What? Me: Nothing. W: No, what were you going to say? Me: Really, nothing. W: I want to hear it. Me: Trust me, you don't. W: Trust me, I do. Me: W, you really need to let this drop. W: No, I really need to hear it. Me: W, You really really don't. So just drop it. W: ok.
What was I going to say to W saying, "I don't do white trash"? I was going to say, "that's funny, didn't stop you with OM".
So tell me we can't control ourselves.
Hope4us
Me - 49, W 49 S22 & S18 Dday 9/4/07 W claims NC 4/7/08 8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.