JoJo, So, you are seeing a bit of a 2 1/2 week cycle of him initiating some contact? Did the 3 week "going dark" plan help you to see that? By noticing that, how does that help you see how you should connect with him in these next months?
The contact you had last Thursday night seemed pretty positive - that's great! It sounded as if you focused on connecting & affirming him being there, but you also were the one that initiated needing to leave. That seemed like a wonderful balance of affirming the relationship AND affirming your confident personhood!
JJ, talk to me about the Thanksgiving plans re: connecting (or not connecting) with A. What are you realistically hoping for?
And, I am so glad your 2 year goal has been achieved!!! I am so glad you are able to look back and see you've accomplished something very important for yourself, JoJo. TWO BIG HUGS! :o)
Laurie, Divorce Busting Coach Contact The Divorce Busting Center at 303-444-7004 or 800-664-2435 if you would like to schedule a telephone consultation with a DB Coach - or email virginia@divorcebusting.com for info.
