Well, it should be a lot easier for me after the D I think. Then I won't be so suspicious of the timing. I'm guessing that H's L might have said well once a week isn't very much since you're trying to get primary custody, try to get the kids for a longer period!
My C (and the kids' C) has said to me a few times that she thinks H will probably see the kids a lot less after the D. He's probably seeing them a lot now trying to get custody and save himself money in child support and alimony. I hope that isn't true, but he certainly is seeing them more and more the closer we get to court dates. He wasn't having them for overnight visits but once every couple of months, then about 2 months ago started one night a week, now wants to increase it to 4 nights a week right before our first hearing. I just think it is so rude of him to basically use the kids. I suspect he won't be looking for extra visits or longer visits after the D. I hope he still sees them on a regular basis, at least what the court orders or whatever.
