I'm not letting this latest experience put me off. I'm off to Centre Parcs again in a couple of weekends time with the group I've been in for a couple of years. It is usually a really good weekend so I'm looking forward to it. Last year amongst a raft of things I did I played tennis in the rain (twice). Probably a little dangerous, certainly came away extremely wet but it was a hoot (and I got to play with 3 fellas cos all the other women cried off due to the rain ).
Surprisingly there was no 'love letter' from Hs L today. So as you might expect my mood improved considerably once the postman had been and gone.
D13 is at Hs now for her tea. She hasn't spoken to him all week as they fell out when she went last week. Even when I am not here he never comes into the house anymore. He justs rings her on her mobile to say he has arrived and then sits in the car waiting for her. Today she made him wait ages whilst she got changed, had a drink and told me about her day (she had only been home from school about 10 mins). We had a giggle about that.
Me 43 XH 45 M 2.7.88 Divorce 7.10.09 Kids D20,S17 & D15