The thing is this:

He probably will not be in contact with you for awhile and this moving in business is new and exciting for them. In time, and it may take while, it will wear off.

Try not to call him unless it is an emergency or has to do with your kids.

Chances are, he will not talk to you while ow is around.

I can imagine how difficult this is for you.

When my h first moved out over two years ago, he did not come around for a few weeks and then he began coming over on weekends. I did have contact with him and still do but to not have contact at all is so foreign to me.

I hope and pray for the best for you and your family.

Try and keep yourself busy around the kids/grandkids, etc. It is hard at first but you will get thru it.


The Bomb: 08/05
H moves out: 06/2006
H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07
H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08
H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09
Divorced 08-12
Kids: 22, 20, 19