In my opinion, she's way too much of a "Princess" to make it with this guy. She's going to crash, and come running back to you at some point.
Unfortunately, I don't think there's much you can do right now, other than let her crash. I do think that if she EVER wants to come back, you're going to have a ton of fallout to deal with from how wide the exposure was. Like maybe setting up your home together in another town or something.
Puppy
Man, I wish I had more faith that you were right, but her "new" (post-bomb) attitude scares the hell out of me. I don't even recognize the person she is right now. It's like some switch got flipped in her head and she just shut me off like a light.
Is there any point at all in me laying it all on the line right now?
H: 38 W: 36 S: 8 S: 5 M: 16 Bomb: 8/25/08 OM: 9/21/08 EA (Possible PA) with co-worker since 5/08 (at least...) Sep: 9/21/08 D Filed 9/23/08 My Situation