I always was thinking that eventually he would "WANT" like me. He probably never will. he may be able to learn to " do " more, but never want like me. Hope that makes sense.
Diane - Yes, this makes perfect sense! It's that desire to be wanted that makes us want this so badly with our spouses. How could they ever stop wanting us?
I'm sure you saw my post:
Originally Posted By: Cinco
One comment she made says it all.
"H, I don't understand why you still can't keep your hands off of me."
This, to me, says that there is no desire in her for me like the desire that I have for her. I have never stopped wanting her though. Her comment indicates that she simply doesn't understand that I want her so much and she probably doesn't understand this because she doesn't feel the same way for me. Therefore she simply cannot relate to the way that I feel.
As much as we want this from them, only they can decide to want to want us again. All we can do is to hope that it will happen, ask them and then hope for this from them.
