I have been doing the love dares (simple things like make her coffee) but she says that is why she shut down on Saturday. She was afraid I thought she still wanted to stay in the marriage. I approached her last night and she was able to tell me what happened. Since last night she is back to communicating with me. I think I need to back off the love dares...they close her down.
I think our biggest issue is that she cannot communicate with me when she is angry or upset. She stuffs if back down and has let these things build up. She has done this with her best friend(they no longer talk), her mother(they no longer talk), and now with me. I have known this somewhat through our M and have taken great pains to calmly work on anything that does come up. She even agrees it is her problem.
