What would your note say? Does she seem to be on board with the earlier move now? Is she considering others feelings/thoughts on the matter?
It sounds as if a lot of talking was done. Maybe she needs to soak some of it in before you throw something else at her(not literally of course).
kat
Kat, She still thinks it would be best for her and S16 to move at the end of the school year, and I kind of agree with her that that would be ideal. But I don't feel as strongly as she does about not moving at the end of the first semester. And S16 WANTS TO MOVE NOW. We didn't come to a decision one way or another yet. I did tell her that I'm concerned us being apart for 4-5 nights a week for 5 months waiting for school to end for them to move.
I asked her if the reason she wanted to wait to move was because she really didn't want to move at all and she said no, that it was just what she thought was best for S16.
Hope4us
Me - 49, W 49 S22 & S18 Dday 9/4/07 W claims NC 4/7/08 8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.