Santa Mom came in about the time dinner was ready. At first she didn't want to eat; but reneged as I was putting it out on the table. We ate as a family and prayed together as well.
W looked rough, no makeup, hair not done, tired, and a little down. Not very upbeat; except when she was playing with the kittens. She gave D4 a bath and put her in the bed. Read stories to both kids. I left her alone while she did all this.
She brought up Fri. night again and wanted to know if I had fun, what band I went to see. I told her that it was Dan's band. She asked where they were playing and I told her it was a house party. She asked, "whose house?" I told her a friend of Dan's. Then she mentioned about me being surprised that she asked about me Fri. night while she was out. I told her that I was shocked that she even contacted me because she has NEVER contacted me before when she's been out.
She packed up a large overnight bag and one of the "good" pillows and mentioned that she'd be back in the morning to help with D4. I told her to be careful and she went on her way.
uh sheesh you guys I made that comment to amy about cheap and easy FOOD lol! man oh man didnt think of the other way to take it lol!
so santa mom came home for dinner. Tom you are so amazing, I dont know how you do it, or how the kids hang in there, i pray for ya'll so hard!!
obviously she called and asked you all the questions, because of all the work YOU have done for YOU and the kids, the changes, we can see them just in your writing, I would love to see them in real life i bet its amazing!!
love and hugs and hope its warming up!
M 36 XH 34 3 children If a house is divided against itself, that house will not be able to stand. Mark 3:25 "your mood swings are giving me whiplash" twilight ALIVE FREE AND HAPPY 2010
you must have!! think i will read about job tonite, i sure need some! well its getting better but more lol!
M 36 XH 34 3 children If a house is divided against itself, that house will not be able to stand. Mark 3:25 "your mood swings are giving me whiplash" twilight ALIVE FREE AND HAPPY 2010
In light of my W's outreach to me during her night out and the resultant convo on Sunday night about it; I think I'm going to ask for us to put together a schedule where we know who is taking care of the kids on alternating weekends. I think I need to continue being unavailable EVERY weekend night. It would seem that my unavailability caused her to react in a way that I have not witnessed in recent times. I know now that she was, at the least, thinking of me and the family while she was out doing who knows what. I would consider that a small improvement.
Slight change in goals now; and will definitely mark this one down in the journal.
