The lumpy thing was in reference to the fact that BBJ said something like I will be a lump here for 30 minutes....no more lumpy for BBJ. Which is harder? I guess if you fall in one cagtegory you think the other is easier. It is all hard in my opinion. After reading K's last post, that sums up so well the "live in" challenges....sure did bring back some old memories. With my experience and some of what I have read here, if I had to generalize, I would say living under the same roof is NOT the way to go. I really can not see any "long term" advantages. For the LBS it could even be worse because we tend to look at every little action (or lack thereof) and amplify it. We may also do the same when not under the same roof but the interactions are much fewer.
