I think there are more possible paths, you are all right which is why I stop myself losing my temper and filing. My goal is to save my marriage or at least get past this point. It is a 180 for me to just wait for his response as he will have to respond eventually, he wants to sell the house after all. I will not initiate, other than to include him in things like my choir email that I would send to all my friends. I will wait longer.
I know that me bringing up r talks don't work in my sitch. Pre DBing we used to date and have fun for a few weeks then I would bring up r stuff 'just to see how we were progressing' and slam, we would be back to the start again or i would get 'I don't know'. He never engaged in these talks. The only time we ever got anywhere was when he chose to talk to me, I think this happened twice - one time afterwards he was so exhausted and confused he fell asleep in my arms *sigh*. However, when he initiates it will mean he is ready to do that and I am prepared to wait for that for the sake of my marriage.
I am not worrying too much though, I just observe that it is now 2 weeks. I'm getting on with my picnic.
Thanks for mini 2x4ing me over my snappiness - that is the old pre DBing me rearing it's head.
