The next stage, maybe

[AliSuddenly]

Hey Julia..
Yes (thanks ITH!).. thats what I was trying to get at "I think Ali makes a good point in terms of the fact that there are always more than 2 possible paths to follow. I don't see it as file for D or wait indefinitely."

So, not to do anything now, today, tommorow, or soon even, just that its not an either/or sitch, there are other ways. Depends how you feel about waiting. I cant BELIEVE how slow these guys are to move/act... or even, think! I had NC, like Lisa for 6 weeks, then there were tentative texts/emails (not like before) and finally a drink.. but that took 3 months to materialise.

Its pretty astounding isnt it. So, how about all us girls here... has this taught you to just be more open, expressive, honest with people? It has me. Like I took the trouble to send thankyou letters to my aunties for all their love and support on the phone this year. The old me would have probably not bothered.

Love and blessings to you Julia!
Al x