1. that she quit her job (OM worked there); 2. that she send a no-contact letter to OM, content approved by me and letter MAILED by me (so that she didn't add anything, or "minimize" it in any way); 3. that she change her cellphone #, and get detailed billing on the new one, to come to me; 4. that she get a full-panel STD test
I would without question insist upon full no-contact, backed up by a bullet-proof transparency plan.
