Thanks Davidswife! It's a tough decision, I am definitely not ready yet because this rings means a lot to me. It truly is a symbol for me. I don't take my marriage lightly and if I took it off, in my mind, I am saying that I am 'done'.
Or the other hand, who is to say that I can't take it off? These are my rules, no one elses. Can't I change my own rules? Can't I change my own point of view? No one says I can't take off my ring and work on my marriage at the same time.
Me:39 H:40 S:9 D:7 First Bomb ONS:June 07 Second Bomb OW: March 08 Separated: March 08 M:15 yrs T:18 yrs H deep into A with OW Achieved ACCEPTANCE May 30, 09