Thanks Davidswife! It's a tough decision, I am definitely not ready yet because this rings means a lot to me. It truly is a symbol for me. I don't take my marriage lightly and if I took it off, in my mind, I am saying that I am 'done'.

Or the other hand, who is to say that I can't take it off? These are my rules, no one elses. Can't I change my own rules? Can't I change my own point of view? No one says I can't take off my ring and work on my marriage at the same time.


Me:39
H:40
S:9
D:7
First Bomb ONS:June 07
Second Bomb OW: March 08
Separated: March 08
M:15 yrs
T:18 yrs
H deep into A with OW
Achieved ACCEPTANCE May 30, 09

'Yes, I can.'