Hi CIW, I ordered your book. I can't wait to get my hands on it and start reading, I think it will be really useful. I'll let you know when it comes and I start getting into it.

THANKS so much for your comments!

I have been working on our outer appearance (as have you, I read in your post) and I can say I haven't looked this good in a long time (10 years plus). I am getting a lot of positive comments from my girl friends but to tell you the truth, I don't meet that many men!

You have a good point, though. I wouldn't mind boosting my ego with some innocent chatting with some guys and actually it's been on my mind these last 3 weeks. Now I am wondering how to go about this. First of all, I'm not very smooth, i.e. don't know what to say, get all flustered. I will try to relax, though. Also, where to go to meet these mysterious stoneage creatures??? I need to put on my thinking cap. Any ideas? My girlfriend suggested kickboxing class, high ratio of males activities.

I am still wearing my wedding band. H tossed his in April...He lied and told me it's 'missing'. I don't know why I am still wearing mine, maybe because I still believe in our marriage and also I don't want the kids to see it's off my finger. Should I take it off??? Don't know, so many questions.


Me:39
H:40
S:9
D:7
First Bomb ONS:June 07
Second Bomb OW: March 08
Separated: March 08
M:15 yrs
T:18 yrs
H deep into A with OW
Achieved ACCEPTANCE May 30, 09

'Yes, I can.'