PM Thread #2

[Can it work]

Good Morning PM. I hope the weekend has brought you some joy? The one thing you indicated to me in your last post is that you have low self esteem. That's a big problem I have too. I always saw myself as the lucky one for getting a W like I did. That is completely flawed though. My W loved me for who I was, not because she was feeling sorry for me and fancied a bit of rough. You have to realise that your H fell in love with you for who you were. Have you changed much in that time? Before you met your H, did you look in the mirror and like what you saw? What about now? Better or worse? What you need are compliments from people/men other than your H. Right now, your H is blinded by lust for OW so you have to just put him to the back of your mind since he'll be no help in this right now. A good thing for you to try now is to try and rediscover the woman in you. How long has it been since you flirted with a man other than your H? Your basic man is a pretty simple creature whose idea of relationship issues haven't progressed much from the stoneage. If subjected to a bit of flattery by a woman, the minds of these primitive beasts turn to mush. I'm not suggesting you should cheat on your H but you do need to prove to yourself that you're still a woman deserving of male interest. If you can even make one man take note as you walk past, there's still hope of winning back the love of your life. You need to believe in you! To do that, I think you need to be shown that you have something to offer. Enjoy it! It'll be a great boost to your self esteem and it will get your mind off that H of yours. If H notices this, it may even make him stop and think a bit. Don't let that be the reason you do it though because that would make it a covert contract. Good luck!