OMG how could I forget!! Yesterday I texted H telling him about a minor procedure that I have to get done and also telling him that I wanted his help with a project that I was working on. He immediatly responded concerned if I was ok because of the procedure and wanting to know more about this project. I told him that I was making a purse for his sister for Christmas but I wanted some of his creative expertise in making the label. H told me ok, he's just not sure as to exactly when because of his crazy schedule with the holidays right now. To me that is so much better than a 'No, I'm too busy'
Good job Sep, way to see the positives. The "I don't know"s or "we'll see"s are annoying at times but always better than a flat out no.
I love that he was concerned for you, that is a very sweet and good sign.
Also congrats on the raise. That's always exciting.
Is your h gonna be busy until after Thanksgiving or until after Christmas? I hope you guys can get together soon! Keep trying and eventually it will work out.
I get I don't knows and we'll sees all the time from my H. At least it isn't a no. I've found that some of them have turned into yes after a little bit of time goes by.
It sounds like you must be pretty busy with your new job. I hope you are taking time for yourself too.
Me-36 H-30 T-7yr, M-3yr DivorceBusting Saved my marriage! sep 6-08 to 12-08. Together again, things are good!
Have to agree with Opt. Seems like the "we'll sees" are standard vocabulary for the WAH. I remember Jen Jam telling me that her H used to say the same thing as well. Opt is also right that some of them turn into yeses. Well I've found they can turn into yeses when I completely drop the requests, and H gets to be the ones bringing up the idea...
Looking forward to hearing about your weekend!
ITH
Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be S 07/28/08-11/08/08 Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!
Thanks for the 'We'll See' anaysis reminder, it is so true as I know the WAH are so wishy washy..lol.
Not much of an exciting weekend or much to report. Saturday I had a 8am mandatory staff meeting for the pt job!! Yuck..so I was wide awake after and set off on my day, went to hang out with a friend of mine and bought some really cool fabric that I want to make something out of. Then went into work for the evening. Yesterday I just did household things...cleaned the house, went food shopping starting working on my project. No word from H since Thursday..he's back in his cave for a little while.
Are you going to reach out to your H or wait for him to reach out to you?
ITH
Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be S 07/28/08-11/08/08 Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!
Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be S 07/28/08-11/08/08 Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!
