Thanks everyone, I'll talk to her tomorrow and tell her I'm uncomfortable with the idea of riding to the party together, and I will suggest that she might want to ride out with her dad. He is going and doesn't have anyone riding with him.

M45
W41
M10.75 years
D9, D7, D7, S5
OM confirmed 12/07 merry christmas to me
WAM (Walk Away Mom) 05/31/08
W files for D 07/18/08
Amount of time WAM spent with kids so far this month = 1.65