The only time my H apologized for anything was when he cussed me out, he came back about 3 days later & told me he wanted to apologize for the language he used. I think he might have realized at that time that I had taped the whole convo. But it was too late, I had already turned it into my L, but thank goodness it wasn't used.
How far away are you & your H?
I hope you have a wonderful week & a great T'giving. You seem like such a sweet person, it's hard to believe that these things are happening to someone like you!