I guess it's very possible that it seems to him that we're doing it all the time; wish I had been there. He actually accused me of keeping track, which I do - mentally anyway. I'll admit that I do get upset when almost a week goes by with absolutely nothing while he'd be perfectly content with once a week or maybe even once a month. I've never had this problem in any relationship. I find myself wondering why he finds me so undesirable.
