Quote: I don't know how you'd go about "proving" this that wouldn't provoke a battle,
well since my h often assumes there is more frequency than there actually is, and then decides to tell me I'm dillusional or something, has even suggested that I have some memory problem and that I should keep a log or something I think perhaps I will.
I have in the past simply put a line or some other inconspicuous marking on the calendar noting the last time he initiated or accepted and then waiting to note how long it has been but that doesn't seem to work as h still thinks I've missed something. So then I guess the thing to do is keep a daily short journal, not simply noting sex but noting the day's occurances, anything specific about the day and of course if there was any physical contact.
this way it's not a battle, it's just mere proof of what is actually going on.
