Also, do I take her back only if we can get the hell out of her hometown? I don't feel like I can put conditions on it, but I want to move to Tulsa and take that job and just start over. Get away from all of the bad influences there.
Something to think about if the sitch gets to the point that both of you are considering putting it back together. I definitely wouldn't mention it right now and I know that you know that; but it is something that should be considered given the history that you have in her hometown. A part of me wishes I had never moved to my W's hometown; but it's been a great career move for me and if she left me in our last town I probably would be without the kids. So it's a double-edged sword for me. I realize that this would have happened anyway; so it's better that we're already here because this is where she would have run to.
I can't, for the life of me, figure out why her L would keep pushing except for the monetary gain. My L said that he never pushes a client to do anything that they don't want to do; just gives advice and present the case in the best interests of the client. He also concentrates on father's rights; that's why I have him.
