I've always had a high sex drive. However, I was previously married (16 years) to a man who was a verbal abuser AND avoided him as much as possible. I had no desire for my ex at all after the first couple of years.

My current husband is a very affectionate person, but it stops at the bedroom. He doesn't want to touch me, and he doesn't want my touch either. In hind sight I absolutely should not have married him because of these issues. I know that he loves me, and I love him very much also. I could cheat, but I honestly don't want anyone else.

I just feel like I'm dying inside, and I don't know what to do about it.