Seems as I am in the same boat patience is not my strength and it has been 5 mths now since wife told me she wants a divorce and about 2 mths since she moved out. All the advice I been getting is try to win the little battles and not the whole war. Look for the little signs that might spark in her and adjust accordingly. We need to work on ourselves and try to get our lives back on track by doing things we used to enjoy before we were married and I know its hard and easier said than done but it will be the only way we can make it through the pain and maybe it will show her what she got at home. Believe me I have to tel mslf everyday to step back keep those lips sealed and only respond to her after carefull thought. opefully this helps a little since i am just rambling along
