Quote: We've only been married a year but have been together for four years. This has been an issue from day one. I'm 45, and he's 38. I often wonder if he wanted someone older because he thought the sex part would be over in a couple of years. Cgal, a couple of questions, since he was like that from day one, why did you marry him? Did you sex drive increase in your forties, or has it always been this high.
Comments; when the kids were growing up, we had sex once a week if we were lucky, as the kids left and she turn 40, her drive went way up, she stated that she could have sex every day. Well I had become accostom sp to 1 a week, and she also wanted longer times than an hour. She commented that her GF and her H did it for 2.5 hours. So sex actually become work for me and I avoided it. Little secret, we only need a minute, we do the rest for you.