Very true I just need to set my mind on the little battles and try to win those instead trying to win the whole war.
From now on I will use your advice step back and let her ride in that roller coaster she in now,and who knows maybe it will stop right here at home an if not at least I know its not what she wanted.
This is the hardest I done in my life and I been to Iraq 3 times. Would do 3 more tours if I could avoid the pain I am in now.
Ineed to stay focused and listen to the good advice I am recieving here