No word from my H for 3 days now...I hate this! All those old feelings start to come back. I know he is busy in his own little world and I know this isn't about me...BUT why does it feel like it is all about me when he does this?

peace-thanks for the pep talk today. I know what I need to be happy on my own and I truly am sometimes. I just need to be able to tune him out like he does me...why can't I? Is there a way to make this not hurt?