Good job on insisting to go to your family. It wil be fun to get away from the mess and be wih loved ones again. And it will be for your H to be familyless during Thanksgiving.
I dont know what to say about your H. Maybe tough love could be the answer? xxx K
I don't know what to say about him either K. I have decided I won't shut the door completely. Today I told D she could send H a text telling him he could come for dinner if he brought dinner. I felt it was a pretty big risk because I knew he had been watching a football game w/ coworkers in the afternoon. There was a big chance of rejection. H sent a message back pretty quickly asking what we wanted him to pick up. He called on the way sounding peeved that he couldn't find the place where he was to pick up dinner. He had never been there before as it is near MY house. He ended up finding it and blamed not being able to find it on the fact that they didn't have a lit up sign. He sat down and ate with us and stayed a little longer than I thought he would.
So now I plan to lay low and see what H says and does over the next few days.
R 23 years M 20 years Bomb June 2007 S Oct 2007 Ds 11 & 16 Ds and I moved out Aug. 2008
