Thank you for your great advice and confirming what I am thinking. Something happened today that might screw up things a bit, something completely out of my control. My W's sister called 2 hours ago with really bad news. My W's aunt in whose house she basically grew up ended up in intensive care with a serious heart problem. It sounds like her chances are pretty dim. I feel honestly sad, because I really like her a lot, and my W has been crying since. I told my W that I know how close she is to her aunt and if there is anything I can do for her, she should let me know. She started crying again, but I refrained from taking her in my arms and left her alone. At this point I doubt she will join me tomorrow, but I am not going to ask her until some time in the morning.
This has really made a bad day worse...
AN
M43 W45, M17 S9 D6 Bomb: 11/11/08 EA: 10/26-12/31/08 ? Retrouvaille: 2/13-2/15/09 Healed, but still heading for D My situation