Beth and techguy,

Thank you for your great advice and confirming what I am thinking. Something happened today that might screw up things a bit, something completely out of my control. My W's sister called 2 hours ago with really bad news. My W's aunt in whose house she basically grew up ended up in intensive care with a serious heart problem. It sounds like her chances are pretty dim. I feel honestly sad, because I really like her a lot, and my W has been crying since.
I told my W that I know how close she is to her aunt and if there is anything I can do for her, she should let me know. She started crying again, but I refrained from taking her in my arms and left her alone. At this point I doubt she will join me tomorrow, but I am not going to ask her until some time in the morning.

This has really made a bad day worse...

AN


M43 W45, M17
S9 D6
Bomb: 11/11/08
EA: 10/26-12/31/08 ?
Retrouvaille: 2/13-2/15/09
Healed, but still heading for D
My situation