When THEY let go of US

[peacetoday]

Cinders
You gave me a good laugh!
Hopefully your H will see who OW is obviously- needy and jealous
We are not the only ones who will learn lifes lessons--OW will have her day too..
I could realte to youe story about the 180..that was me too in my M
too uptight to step back and enjoy
we are different now//transformed

June
Im sorry you find yourself here
keep posting
There is always hope that our spouses will return..no one really can say whether they will or not
It can be a very long process
so try to take care of yourself
practicing DB is most helpful during this very stressful time
Counseling is very helpful
Find things to keep busy ..things you enjoy
practice being upbeat..I know its hard but it really helps especially around H
Peace