It is nice to hear that after what we have been through, your heart is still able to open itself up to someone...regardless of whether it was lost, then found or stolen. Actually it is more than nice, it is encouraging. It's nice to see people who I have grown fond of and have shared so much, learn to love again. I know this is not playing out the way you would have liked. Someone once (actually more than once)told me to stay positive. Something tells me this chapter in your life is far from over. In the meantime, keep your focus. Focus on your kids, focus on WOOG and to a lesser extent focus on your job....I have not heard the fat lady clear her throat yet. If she does decide to sing one day, well....if you could have your heart stolen once,it can happen again.