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[yenko69]

If she is in fog mode she is still talking to OM? When she said she wasn't going to talk to him, did you get a transparency plan in place?

Yes to both and that it is why I am finished with her. Also, I gave her "His needs Her needs" to read about the healing from all this. Just to confirm on the OM I went driving by there early this morning. Looks like she is doing more then talking with him, the frost on the windows confirmed she stayed the night.

I am 99% certain that is where she got the new ring. I know she can not afford it.

So yes I have hit my limit. I figured it out yesterday this would be the fifth time that I let her come back and try and work it out. I hope she does not try again, she is only going to find disappointment.

I just hope I can keep acting as if. Yesterday I got a call over by the house in the afternoon. I was going to stop and see how D11 was feeling. On the way there I got another call 40 miles away. So I just ended up calling the house.

The closer to the house I got and thought about seeing her I started feeling almost physically ill. Even calling there and talking her was bad enough, had to get through it to talk with D11. I am just glad that she hasn't bothered me.

I am pretty sure I can pull off civil and polite. The first is with the girls. Neither are mine and I have no rights to either one. That and we do go to quite a few calls where D people are fighting and acting like children. I just don't want the drama, I just want out.