Help!!!
I need to know that there is still hope after a divorce. My ex wanted one and I gave it to him. Now his is living with ow and is in love. Grown a pony tail and sports cars etc and is happy.
I want to let go and go on. Let go and let God. Everyone tells me it is over. He is never returning. He never will love you again. Yet in my heart I can not help but realize that it takes two to make it work and that I need to work on me now. He needs this time to work on him. I had my dignity hence the divorce.
HE was angry then happy then angry now last month it happened.
I have not spoken or emailed him since August.
In my heart I see the foolishness of all of this. That in this world there is hope for reconcilliation at any point when there is something that you find that you miss and realize you are both more aware, mature and still want it to.
I only pray someday he will. I emailed the last one that I forgave him and wanted to talk but need time for me now as I was hurting. He respected that or perhaps was relieved or maybe just does not care, right now with ow.
Please help me.